Since I need for fit the music onto a sheet with a maximum size of A3, I need the noteheads to be as large as possible for easy reading. In Sibelius, I use the plugin “Scale Notehead Sizes” written by Bob Zawalich (https://bobzawalich.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/03/How-to-use-the-Scale-Notehead-Size-plugin-in-Sibelius.pdf).
That’s what I use with Sibelius:
– Wallander Instrument’s Note Performer: https://www.noteperformer.com/
– the Norfolk music font https://www.notationcentral.com/product/norfolk-fonts-for-sibelius/